<b><span style="color: #bf9000;">REASONS NOT TO JUMP INTO A RELATIONSHIP OR COMMITMENT</span></b><br /> <br /> A lot of folks go into relationships for a lot of funny and faulty reasons, jump out of that relationship and start putting blames on their exes for things that went wrong or things they didn't do or say.<br /> <br /> First, we should specify what type of relationship and what that relationship should mean cos it's no news that there are different types of relationship. For this publication, we'd be talking about the romantic relationship or "the more than friends" relationship. This relationship should be a commitment to your partner to try as  much as possible in making them comfortable with you both emotionally, sexually,mentally and psychologically because comfort is what everyone longs for. Some of the wrong reasons people go into relationships are:<br /> <br /> -Peer pressure<br />   Peer pressure can come in different forms but the most obvious one is pressure from words of our peer while the most deadly one is reverse psychological pressure. Here you hear the person under pressure saying things like "cos you now have a boyfriend, you're rubbing it in my face right,I'd go get my own boyfriend". They start making moves out of jealousy till they land in the worst relationship of all and they still blame their friends for not stopping them from carrying on with it.<br /> <br /> -"I've been single for too long"<br />     Loneliness is not an excuse to enter a relationship cos all you really need to cure your boredom is lively friends or a change of environment and neither is sexual starvation an excuse. If sex is all you want then be specific with them or better still look for a hooker cos unless you wanna go through emotional torment at the end of the day,it's better to be specific from the onset about what you want from any type of relationship with the opposite sex. For your information, you can be in a relationship with the best person or having sex with a pro and still be lonelier than a single person.<br /> <br /> -increase in age<br />    People would think because they've gotten to certain age range then they can go into a relationship cos time waits for no man forgetting the fact that to sustain a relationship, one need both mental and emotional maturity and not increase in number of days on earth. Some may argue that the older you get, the more mature you are which is sometimes true but even though maturity increases with age,increase in age is not equivalent to increase in maturity level.<br /> <br /> -Parental pressure<br />      I had to point this out again cos the rate at which people go into relationships and marriages cos of parental pressure is alarmingly high. So what if she wants a grand child, so what if they want an in-law, so what if all your friends are getting married by the month, so fucking what? Everybody got their life to live and everybody has their path to take so for you good,have a rethink before conceding to this pressure. Giving a person what they're not ready for is dangerous so why go through that danger for pressure when you're the only one who's gonna wear the shoe and feel the pain when it start pinching cos it's definitely gonna pinch in ways unimaginable.<br /> <br /> Here are some of the reasons why you shouldn't go into a relationship but to balance the beam,I'd give a few reasons why you could go into a relationship:<br /> <br /> -date that guy or girl cos you are ready to be committed to them. Whatever your terms and meaning of commitment may be is up to ye but you both must agree to the terms and conditions to enjoy to the fullest your relationship.<br /> <br /> -go into that relationship cos you are ready to learn and grow into someone that your future self would be proud of. I know some may think it's cruel to use others as practice for understanding the opposite sex and getting a better marriage but it's a game for two cos while he learns,she does too and even faster than him.<br /> <br /> -go into that relationship cos you're ready to grow with your partner or into a more reliable person since it's needed if you wanna enjoy your life long partnership.<br /> <br />        A relationship is supposed to be a committed partnership to that person to improve their live in anyway you can since improving theirs improves yours too. The difference between a relationship and a marriage is the ring so let's treat the relationship with sincere commitment and care.<br /> <br /> <br />         <b>LEO.</b>

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<b><span style="color: #38761d;">FEW WAYS TO MAKE SHOWER SEX LESS AWKWARD AND MORE AWESOME </span></b><br /> <br /> Shower sex. It looks great in movies, but in real life, it can be slippery, dangerous, uncomfortable, and actually hard to pull off. But, if you and your partner have a strong desire to make the move from the bedroom to the bathroom, there are ways to make it happen. I can teach you a better way to do shower sex, so you both can happily get off and spice up the relationship or marriage. I'm here to help. I've provided some of the best sex tips for doing it in the shower, so you can make your next attempt at shower sex hot as helland,I don't just mean the water temperature.<br /> <br />  -Use silicone-based lube.<br /> <br /> Even if shes totally turned on and already wet, the additional water can mess with that. Its just too much water. Thats why it's advisable to use silicone-lube while in the shower. Water-based lubes will wash away immediately. But silicone is thicker, more likely to stay, and can help when you actually penetrate better.<br /> <br />  -Use the bench.<br /> <br /> If you have a bench in the shower or a chair like position, use it, because it gives balance and makes you more stable so you dont slip and fall in the shower. That'd be painful! Plus, you can do more moves when using the benchlike, you can do reverse cowgirl or just cowgirl or doggy, and she can hold the bench.<br /> <br />  -Don't have the shower head pointing directly on your junk.<br /> <br /> You need friction when you have sex, and when you have all that water sloshing around your dick and her vagina, you can't actually get that friction. So it's better you position yourself in a way that the water is coming down on your back or her back. This also helps with not getting water in either of our faces, which is a real mood killer.<br /> <br />  -Bring toys into the shower.<br /> <br /> Sometimes you may need to bring toys into the shower with you, like different vibrators and rings and stuff for more sensations there. The vibration with the shower head is another thing you can do instead of toys for her.<br /> <br />  -Don't try advanced positions<br /> <br /> If you're having shower sex with your partner for the first time, you guys might have the urge to make it really intense  like in a bedroom but DON'T, because its really different and not safe depending on your strength and bathroom type. Like, don't do things where you hold her up, or stuff where no one is hanging onto a bench or wall or something stable on the floor of the tub. You might end up slipping and one or both of you could get [seriously] hurt, which would change the fun to pain really quick. Safety first!<br /> <br />  - Don't get too rough.<br /> <br /> This is not the time to go rough and do more kinky stuff . Save that for the bed where you have more stability and can move around more freely without worrying about falling and breaking all your bones!<br /> <br />  -Sex it up during her period.<br /> <br /> Shower sex can be a good way to have sex when its that time of the month, and it doesnt leave blood everywhere or on your bodies, which is nice.<br /> <br />  -Finish in the bedroom.<br /> <br /> Just because you started in the shower doesn't mean you have to finish there. You can do more of foreplay in the shower, like finger fucking her,intense kissing, nibbling on her skin and stuff.  She can jacks you off. But when you actually start getting to the main game or finals, quickly dry yourselves and head to the bedroom or go there wet and let the bed do the drying.<br /> <br /> NOTE: Bathroom sex is better with hot or steamy water<br /> <br /> <br />          <b>LEO.</b>

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<b><span style="color: #134f5c;">HOW TO GET THE BEST FROM YOUR UNROMANTIC PARTNER</span></b><br /> <br /> New relationships come with the burden of having to constantly impress your new partner. This means, there will be several dates, night outs, trips to the park and picnics. Your new flame will do everything to try and make you happy, one way or another. When getting into a relationship, you expect your boyfriend to surprise you with romantic dinners, romantic weekend getaways or serve you your favorite breakfast in bed.<br /> <br /> Nonetheless, what happens when you end up with a guy? One who is not in touch with his romantic side and cannot tell the difference between a romantic and nonromantic gesture? This can be disappointing and frustrating at the same time. Well, he cannot be fully blamed for being unromantic since it is not something one is born with. Being romantic is a skill. It is acquired through time, so do not go all in on your man for not doing what your exes or your friend’s boyfriends are doing for them. With time and a little bit of direction, you will be shocked at how much your boyfriend can learn and how he can change.<br /> <br /> These six tips can help you deal with an unromantic boyfriend in the gentlest ways without getting either of you hurt.<br /> <br /> Communicate on what you expect<br /> <br /> You need to understand that if your boyfriend is an unromantic soul, he has no idea what being romantic means. You should not expect him to know what he has to do to express his romantic side without you telling him.<br /> <br /> The best thing to do is to tell him what you expect. This will help him understand how things are done in the romance world. This will help open his eyes and he will know what he has to do if he wants to make you happy.<br /> <br /> Don’t judge him based on his strengths and weaknesses<br /> <br /> Do not let his romantic side make you question his affection for you. It is important for you to understand that he cares for you and loves you but he only has problems expressing his romantic side with gestures. As soon as you realize this, it will be easier for you to cope with the issue at hand. Unromantic people see things differently from others because they do not have a feeling for what is romantic and whats not. You need to be his guide and stay patient with him. There is nothing wrong with your boyfriend, he just needs some time and a little bit of effort.<br /> <br /> Don’t compare him to your exes<br /> <br /> Comparing your boyfriend to other men you dated is the worst thing you can ever do. It is painful for him to have to listen to these comparisons all the time. Put yourself in his shoes and imagine how you would feel if he made the same comparisons with you. Making these comparisons will only prolong the situation and hurt his feelings yet your goal is to open his eyes and lead him in the romance direction, not to hurt him more in the process.<br /> <br /> Show him what to do<br /> <br /> When explaining to him what to do, remember to show him how its done. Plan a romantic dinner and serve him breakfast in bed or think of something you have always wanted to do together then show him how it is done. When he sees what you have done, he will be able to connect the dots and make steps in the right direction. Whatever he decides to do, let him know that you are proud of his baby steps and his effort.<br /> <br /> Be ready to compromise<br /> <br /> Be ready to do things that you have avoided doing in the past. If your boyfriend is into sports and gaming, try sitting next to him and ask him to teach you how to play and enjoy these moments together.<br /> <br /> A romantic atmosphere can be created regardless of the activities you engage. When he sees that you are willing to go out of your way to do something he really enjoys doing, he will also be ready to do the same for you. He will stop making excuses whenever you are supposed to do something together and he will always be excited to spend time with you. He will do everything to make you happy because he knows how much this means to you and to your relationship.<br /> <br /> Appreciate his efforts<br /> <br /> Never forget to appreciate your boyfriend’s efforts because he will need your support to show him that he is doing something right. Appreciating him means being able to tell him that you are proud of his progress and you are thankful for the things he does for you. He does not have to do something big for you to let him know he has done something right.<br /> <br /> All the greatest things need practice and being romantic is no exception. If you persistently keep supporting your partner through his transformational journey you will be surprised at what the both of you can achieve together.<br /> <br /> <br />     <b> LEO.</b>

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<b><span style="color: #0b5394;">SIGNS THAT YOU ARE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP</span></b><br /> <br /> Falling in love is a nice thing especially if you are both committed to the relationship. However, some relationships do not work out as expected and here are some signs that you may be in an abusive relationship.<br /> <br /> 1. You are always satisfying your spouse’s sexual needs even when you don’t feel like it. You are forced to fulfill his fantasy.<br /> <br /> 2. Your spouse orders you to do what he/she wants instead of requesting you with respect.<br /> <br /> 3. Your body is insulted by your partner but you still have to give him/her sex.<br /> <br /> 4. Your partner gangs up with his/her friends/parents to mock you and show you how good for nothing you are.<br /> <br /> 5. You are called names that always hurt you even after serval complains on how it makes you feel.<br /> <br /> 6. Your partner makes you feel worthless.<br /> <br /> 7. Your being with your partner has made you believe in yourself less and damaged your self esteem.<br /> <br /> 8. Each time you try to speak up, you are silenced, told you are not educated enough or told because of your gender you have no say on the matter.<br /> <br /> 9. You work hard in your family business but all the money goes to your partner who determines what the money will be used for as you are denied access to the money.<br /> <br /> 10. You are inflicted physical pain through armtwisting, pulling of hair violently, slapping, blows, throwing of hard and fragile objects to you to harm you.<br /> <br /> 11. When you complain about the pain, you are told you brought it upon yourself.<br /> <br /> 12. When you cry, your tears go ignored by the one person who should care for you.<br /> <br /> 13. You have to beg your partner for assistance especially money, not because your partner doesn’t have money, but because your partner wants to show you that you are nothing without him/her.<br /> <br /> 14. Your partner abandons you in the middle of the road and drives off to “teach you a lesson”.<br /> <br /> 15. You are denied the opportunity to worship the God you love and your personal spiritual growth denied.<br /> <br /> 16. You are ridiculed about how you raise the children, you are left alone to parent the children and then shouted at when the children do wrong<br /> <br /> 17. The secrets you shared with your partner are used against you to attack you.<br /> <br /> 18. You are belittled by your partner because of the job you do, the family you grew up in, your economical background, your formal educational level.<br /> <br /> 19. Phone calls and text messages from your partner leave you with fear, lowering your moods.<br /> <br /> 20. You are cut off from your friends and family by your partner because your partner doesn’t want you telling others he/she mistreats you. Your partner is imprisoning you both physically and emotionally.<br /> <br /> <br />           <b>LEO.</b><br /> <br /> 21. You are shown signs of contempt such as being pushed over, deliberate offenses and public shaming.<br /> <br /> 22. You are constantly being told how you are worthless and can never do anything right.<br /> <br /> 23. The presence of your partner scares you and makes you cringe and become uneasy.

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<b><span style="color: #741b47;">WAYS TO AVOID BEING FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS</span></b><br /> <br /> Individuals get into friends with benefits (FWB) relationships to have fun, and maybe forget their sorrows (mostly ugly breakups). Some do so with the hope that the partner might change their mind with time. They bank on the hope that the partner would agree to be in a relationship with them. However, the end is sometimes filled with tears as the supposed partner moves on with someone else. More often than not, guys do the hooking up with no strings attached,some girls do too but a majority of them have a problem in mastering and taking charge of their emotions.<br /> <br /> What do you do when you realize that the guy you like is not having the same feelings as you? These steps can help you master the art of playing the player and staying a few steps ahead by avoiding the friends being with benefits.<br /> <br /> -Do not sleep with them too soon<br /> <br /> When it comes to curving in to his demands, do not be too quick to give in as soon as he sends the what you doing text. Hold on until you are sure that you both want the same thing but don't wait for too long. Do not put it past him, he might be having intentions of getting a one night stand yet you are looking for a committed long term.<br /> <br /> Having sex on the first day or too soon after meeting might also send the wrong message to an immature,mostly that you are only interested in intimacy.<br /> <br /> -Stay busy<br /> <br /> Do not focus all your time and energy on a situation that will lead nowhere. Do not give him too much of your time as he will likely assume that you are desperate for him. He is likely to start giving you less of his attention because he knows you will do the chasing.<br /> <br /> It is common for some partners to stop appreciating your attention and instead end up treating you like trash. Be selfish with your time and only invest it in those who want to spend their time with you without conditions.<br /> <br /> -Replace him as soon as possible<br /> <br /> Just like everything has an expiration date, so do flirting. The moment you figure out that both of you want different things, feel free to ghost him and move on, or even better, spend the time on yourself. Keeping the guy around for too long will most probably result in regrets as your intentions are not conforming.<br /> <br /> Maybe you just need cast your net wider.<br /> <br /> -Hit it and run<br /> <br /> If you have a moment of weakness and end up in his bed and most times you would, leave immediately after and lose his number. Despite how awesome the moment was, do not lose your focus. Take this as a mistake that was never meant to happen. He does not want you the way you want him. This situation will only lead to one thing, you getting hurt and him moving on. Take the walk of shame with no regret. Go clean up at your house rather than stay at his place for a while.<br /> <br /> -Keep your options open<br /> <br /> The both of you might have been talking for months on end but do not chase away other men under the pretense that you are in a relationship or there is a potential of being in one. There should be no string attached. Go on dates with other people and spend time with other people who value you and want to commit to you. Keep your focus on the people who actually want to have a relationship with you rather than make you their friend with benefits.<br /> <br /> -Be the ice queen<br /> <br /> Avoid treating him like your boyfriend. Boys who want to waste your time sometimes come off as romantic from the face value. Remain cold hearted towards him as this will slowly push him away and make him lose interest. Learn to control your emotions and you will soon be playing the player. The Ice Queen does not fall in love no matter what. Keep in mind that he wants to waste your time and avoid hooking up with him at all.<br /> <br /> BUT WHO DOESN'T WANT A FRIEND WITH BENEFIT AFTER A ROUGH HEARTBREAK. IF you're one then ignore the rules.<br /> <br /> <br />      <b>LEO.</b>

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<b><span style="color: #741b47;">SENSATION 4</span></b><br /> <br /> It's Sunday today so I invited him for service in my church and he followed me although I'm beginning to think it wasn't a good idea cos I could barely concentrate with him beside me. Early in the service, all I did was stare at his crotch then let my mind work out the rest and it never failed just replenishing my head with new and creative ways to work his dick and feel satisfied. I could feel the wetness in my pussy increase and there was nothing I could do to stop it cos it's been a while I got this good a dick and the thirst,"hmm hmm" was soo real. I whispered some of my naughty thoughts in his ears and immediately he stood up and was headed outside like I just pressed his remote control, he was halfway to the door when he signaled for me so I followed. We got in the car,then he put his fingers in between my legs and I just froze in anticipation but he stopped when his fingers touched my soaked panties then drew a straight line along my labia. As he removed his hand he made sketches down my inner thighs to my knee,I almost lost it and was about to moan louder when his lips clamped mine and then glided along them for a bit while he lowered the back of his seat and made me climb on him. As we kissed,I felt his hands trying to release his dick from his trouser while I opened some buttons of my shirt to release my boobs. We were done almost immediately so I broke of the kiss and placed my boobs in his hands cos they craved attention but he put it in his mouth while his free hand shifted my panties to the side and delved in deep into my pussy. I gasp for air and grabbed on his shirt as his finger got inside of me, he sucked and bit on my nipple while one hand rolled the other nipple between his fingers and the other fingered my needy pussy. The triple stimulation was so intense that I didn't know when it began to gosh out of me as I moaned like crazy,I squirted allover him and luckily for me he didn't mind. When I was done gushing, he stroked his dick and made me sit on it,as it entered inside of me I could feel me pussy walls stressed to accommodate and romance his pleasure stick. As his waist moved up for a thrust in and down for a thrust out,my body moved down for a thrust in and up for a thrust out respectively while my hands held the head of the chair as my head was thrown backwards as I moaned and groaned in pleasurable ecstasy. It took us a while of thrusting action before I felt the orgasm begin to build up in me so I rode his stick with increased speed and precision until I experienced a toes curling and eyes rolling orgasm. Seconds later,I felt his juice hit my walls shot after shot then trickle down my walls, he got flaccid and slipped out of me then I  sat back on my seat. We drove back home to freshen up and change our squirt and cum laced clothes before coming back to service, we were fast enough to meet them just when the pastor climbed the pulpit to give his sermon.<br /> <br /> After service, we went home without delay for a complete of the morning exercise as planned during the sermon. We got home and I didn't even wait for him to get in the door before I jumped on him and almost tearing off his clothes until he assisted in taking them off just behind the door. We kissed our way to the couch where I pushed him to sit then took off my own clothes as his eyes scanned my body from top to bottom. "Gosh"...I could feel my pussy drip as his penetrating gaze turned me on like a burning match stick so I kissed his lips like it was laced with honey. Planted kisses down his chest and across his tummy to his waistline before coming to suck on his nipples and flick on his navels. His little moans and mumbling made it more delighting for me so I stayed a bit longer before going on to his stick of hot passion. I put it in my mouth,sucked the head and the pre-cum off it before letting the whole length go down my throat and out again for one last look. It was breathtakingly lovely,perfectly wet with saliva and just my size so I gave that kinky smile then clamped my lips on the base. As my lips slowly and smoothly glided along the body till the head,my hand subtly massaged the balls and his soft but touching moan followed so I continued, I was at it for quite a while sucking the body and concentrating on the head until his legs began to shake,feet stressed out as he spilled his juice down my throat. I swallowed each drop till he was down pouring then gave him some seconds to rest before starting again till he was hard, I was so horny and couldn't wait so I just pounced on him but first dry humping as he sucked hard on my nipples before putting it inside of me. As it expanded my pussy walls and went straight inside me I began seeing angels,as I moved up and down on that dick,I felt like I was on top of the world and my happiness was full. I didn't know what happened next until I began to feel a surge of energy form around my pussy and second  later,the current ran through me and "fffuucck aaahh aaghh asssh". I felt my cum spill allover on him. "This is the best so far" I said to myself as I fell on the couch and thanked him for such a pleasant experience before drifting off to sleep. We woke up hours later then he decided to go home so we meet at work tomorrow but now...<br /> <br /> <br />         <b>  LEO.</b>

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<b><span style="color: #741b47;">SENSATION 3</span></b><br /> <br /> By 10am,we were already awake just rolling in bed and feeling tired from the week's hustle.<br /> <br /> Me:bonjour.<br /> Him: bonjour, çava.<br /> Me: bein merci.<br /> Him: so she speaks French too?<br /> Me: yes but just a little bit though.<br /> Him: that's good, I think I should be going now.<br /> Me: please stay the weekend, help me massage my body. There's coconut oil on the table, thank you.<br /> <br /> After a bit of grumbling, he stood up,set my ironing table, told me to lay down for the massage so I obeyed then laid on my tummy. He put some oil on my back then used it to massage my neck,shoulder and back till my waist. He put some oil on my left ass cheek which he used in massaging my ass bone,thigh and knee before going for my calf and heel then up he came again and stopping just before my pussy lips. "Ahh yyeesss", I said as I felt the tension on my left leg ease up like a deflated ballon,he then massaged my foot and toes one by one and that felt sooo good. He continued on my right feet,massaged the heel and toes before putting more oil on my right ass cheek and back knee which he used in massaging my calf and thigh. He massaged my ass bones with so much expertise that I could literally feel the stress reducing as he continued massaging. He massaged my back again before making me turn over on my back and facing the ceiling, he put some oil on my cleavage and tummy from which he massaged my neck and shoulders. As he massaged my rib cage from my arm to my waist,his wrist touched my now sensitive nipples  and I'd bite my lips to keep from moaning but I lost it when he rubbed my boobs. He kneaded my nipples with his fingers and concentrating on my areolas for a while so I began moaning to ease the pleasure and noticed my legs open up a bit. He massaged along my waistline then down my thighs to my knees one leg after the other but when his hands rubbed my inner thighs, I swear I could feel it in my pussy. He ignored me like he knew not what his hands were making me feel and continued on from my knee down my leg to my heel then my feet and toes. His hands felt so good that my whole skin became sensitive to all of his touches and when he massaged my other leg up to the knee,he separated them to focus on the pussy. Massaging my pussy, he put some oil in his hands and rubbed my labia one after the other from the major to the minor and I felt every touch running from my pussy walls through my spine to the recess of my brain like plucking the strings of a guitar. I couldn't help but moan and groan like crazy as he kept working his magical fingers around,on and in my pussy. I was almost getting an orgasm when he stopped but I couldn't take it so I begged him to continue then he quickly but systematically put three fingers in me. As it came in,it stretched my pussy walls to the point that I felt every thrust his fingers made in and out, it was not long when the table under me began to shake in response to my shaking body as I cummed on his fingers. "Take this" he said as he pointed his cum laced fingers to my mouth and I licked it then he licked the drops running to his wrist. He came to my mammary glands,gently and skillfully caressed my boobs then moved on to my nipples while I gripped the shit and moaned like crazy. He rubbed my nipples for a bit longer before using the warmth from his moist tongue to lick round each nipple,he sucked on each and bit them a little. As he sucked,I could feel sexual current course through my legs. With my hands caressing his head as he sucked on my nipples,I zoned off only to be revived by the force of orgasm that ran through my bones. I could barely feel my legs when he was done so I asked him to take me to the bed which he did and I slept off again...<br /> <br /> <br />            <b> LEO.</b>

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