SIGNS THAT YOU ARE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP
Falling in love is a nice thing especially if you are both committed to the relationship. However, some relationships do not work out as expected and here are some signs that you may be in an abusive relationship.
1. You are always satisfying your spouse’s sexual needs even when you don’t feel like it. You are forced to fulfill his fantasy.
2. Your spouse orders you to do what he/she wants instead of requesting you with respect.
3. Your body is insulted by your partner but you still have to give him/her sex.
4. Your partner gangs up with his/her friends/parents to mock you and show you how good for nothing you are.
5. You are called names that always hurt you even after serval complains on how it makes you feel.
6. Your partner makes you feel worthless.
7. Your being with your partner has made you believe in yourself less and damaged your self esteem.
8. Each time you try to speak up, you are silenced, told you are not educated enough or told because of your gender you have no say on the matter.
9. You work hard in your family business but all the money goes to your partner who determines what the money will be used for as you are denied access to the money.
10. You are inflicted physical pain through armtwisting, pulling of hair violently, slapping, blows, throwing of hard and fragile objects to you to harm you.
11. When you complain about the pain, you are told you brought it upon yourself.
12. When you cry, your tears go ignored by the one person who should care for you.
13. You have to beg your partner for assistance especially money, not because your partner doesn’t have money, but because your partner wants to show you that you are nothing without him/her.
14. Your partner abandons you in the middle of the road and drives off to “teach you a lesson”.
15. You are denied the opportunity to worship the God you love and your personal spiritual growth denied.
16. You are ridiculed about how you raise the children, you are left alone to parent the children and then shouted at when the children do wrong
17. The secrets you shared with your partner are used against you to attack you.
18. You are belittled by your partner because of the job you do, the family you grew up in, your economical background, your formal educational level.
19. Phone calls and text messages from your partner leave you with fear, lowering your moods.
20. You are cut off from your friends and family by your partner because your partner doesn’t want you telling others he/she mistreats you. Your partner is imprisoning you both physically and emotionally.
LEO.
21. You are shown signs of contempt such as being pushed over, deliberate offenses and public shaming.
22. You are constantly being told how you are worthless and can never do anything right.
23. The presence of your partner scares you and makes you cringe and become uneasy.
Falling in love is a nice thing especially if you are both committed to the relationship. However, some relationships do not work out as expected and here are some signs that you may be in an abusive relationship.
1. You are always satisfying your spouse’s sexual needs even when you don’t feel like it. You are forced to fulfill his fantasy.
2. Your spouse orders you to do what he/she wants instead of requesting you with respect.
3. Your body is insulted by your partner but you still have to give him/her sex.
4. Your partner gangs up with his/her friends/parents to mock you and show you how good for nothing you are.
5. You are called names that always hurt you even after serval complains on how it makes you feel.
6. Your partner makes you feel worthless.
7. Your being with your partner has made you believe in yourself less and damaged your self esteem.
8. Each time you try to speak up, you are silenced, told you are not educated enough or told because of your gender you have no say on the matter.
9. You work hard in your family business but all the money goes to your partner who determines what the money will be used for as you are denied access to the money.
10. You are inflicted physical pain through armtwisting, pulling of hair violently, slapping, blows, throwing of hard and fragile objects to you to harm you.
11. When you complain about the pain, you are told you brought it upon yourself.
12. When you cry, your tears go ignored by the one person who should care for you.
13. You have to beg your partner for assistance especially money, not because your partner doesn’t have money, but because your partner wants to show you that you are nothing without him/her.
14. Your partner abandons you in the middle of the road and drives off to “teach you a lesson”.
15. You are denied the opportunity to worship the God you love and your personal spiritual growth denied.
16. You are ridiculed about how you raise the children, you are left alone to parent the children and then shouted at when the children do wrong
17. The secrets you shared with your partner are used against you to attack you.
18. You are belittled by your partner because of the job you do, the family you grew up in, your economical background, your formal educational level.
19. Phone calls and text messages from your partner leave you with fear, lowering your moods.
20. You are cut off from your friends and family by your partner because your partner doesn’t want you telling others he/she mistreats you. Your partner is imprisoning you both physically and emotionally.
LEO.
21. You are shown signs of contempt such as being pushed over, deliberate offenses and public shaming.
22. You are constantly being told how you are worthless and can never do anything right.
23. The presence of your partner scares you and makes you cringe and become uneasy.
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